Marriage, Money and the Importance of Priorities

For many young couples, the transition into marriage and parenthood comes with challenges they may not be prepared to face. Drawing on her experience in Women and Children’s Affairs, Dr. Nisha Fernando explores how financial hardship, mounting debt, unmet expectations and a lack of emotional support can gradually  damage relationships. 

Words – Dr Nisha Fernando / Sachini Perera

Through a deeply thought-provoking real-life account, she highlights the importance of prioritising family wellbeing over material wants and stresses the need for empathy, patience, mutual respect and responsible decision-making. Her reflections offer a timely reminder that when couples lose sight of what truly matters, the consequences can extend far beyond their relationship, affecting the safety, stability and wellbeing of the entire family. Young couples today can find themselves under immense pressure. Financial difficulties, rising living costs, debt and the responsibilities of raising a child can create an environment where stress quickly turns into frustration and conflict. However, difficult circumstances should also encourage couples to reconsider their priorities and focus on what truly matters.